Wendy Gilroy 
MSocSc.(Addiction), BSocSc.(Psych), Dip.Counselling
Specialist Counsellor & Therapist for Mums
Founder, Mind Momentum
Thanks for visiting my site – it’s lovely to have you here.

If you’ve found yourself on this page, there’s a good chance you’ve been carrying a lot for a long time.

Perhaps you’re constantly juggling the kids, work deadlines, school lunches, after-school activities, household responsibilities and everyone else’s needs. From the outside, it probably looks like you’re managing it all.

But inside?

You might be struggling as a mum. You could be feeling anxious, emotionally exhausted, easily irritated, disconnected from your partner, or guilty that you’re not the calm, patient mum you want to be. Maybe you finally sit down at the end of the day… but your mind won’t switch off, and you lose your temper easily.

If any of that sounds familiar, I want you to know something.

You’re not alone.

And you don’t have to keep carrying it all by yourself.

I’m Wendy, a counsellor, wife, and mum of two teenagers.

Since 2015, I’ve had the privilege of supporting hundreds of mothers to move from surviving each week to feeling calmer, lighter, more confident and more like themselves again.

My approach isn’t about fixing you, because I don’t believe you’re broken.

It’s about giving you a safe, compassionate space to slow down, untangle what’s weighing you down, and gently create meaningful change in a way that fits your real life.

Together we’ll explore what’s really driving your stress, anxiety or overwhelm, not just the symptoms, but the underlying patterns that keep you feeling stuck.

Because when you feel calmer, everything else begins to change.

You become more patient with your children.

More connected with your partner.

More present in the moments that matter.

And perhaps most importantly, you begin to feel like yourself again.

A holistic approach to your wellbeing

Motherhood affects every part of our lives, so I believe support should too.

Rather than focusing on just one issue, we gently look at the whole picture. Your emotional wellbeing, stress, relationships, parenting challenges, work-life balance, physical wellbeing, mindset, identity, and the dreams or parts of yourself that may have been put on hold all matter.

Everything is connected.

When one area has been neglected for too long, it often shows up somewhere else. It may be through anxiety, exhaustion, poor sleep, constant worry, emotional overwhelm or the mum-rage that leaves you feeling guilty afterwards.

My role is to help you understand those patterns with compassion, not judgement, and support you in creating lasting change.

Why I Care So Deeply about Supporting Mums

Becoming a mum taught me things no textbook ever could.

I learned that many capable, loving women quietly carry enormous mental and emotional loads.

That we often feel pulled in two directions, wanting to be present for our children while also pursuing meaningful work and our own ambitions.

That the mental to-do list never really ends.

That we place impossible expectations on ourselves.

That it’s possible to love our family deeply while still feeling overwhelmed, depleted or like we’ve somehow lost ourselves along the way.

Most of all, I learned that mothers deserve support long before they reach burnout or breaking point.

My qualifications

Alongside my formal qualifications and lived experience as a mum, I bring over a decade of professional counselling, therapy and coaching experience supporting women through life’s challenges.

I regularly integrate evidence-informed counselling approaches with a holistic understanding of wellbeing, helping you feel supported as a whole person, not just a collection of symptoms.

You don’t have to do this alone

Reaching out for support can feel like a big step.

Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed, anxious, emotionally exhausted, stuck, or simply know something needs to change, you’re welcome here.

I’d love to help you find your way back to feeling calmer, happier and more connected with your family, and with yourself.

 

The most important part of choosing a counsellor is your connection with them. You need to feel safe, understood, and supported in every session.

Your wellbeing is like a puzzle.

When you’re feeling stressed, anxious or overwhelmed, it’s easy to think there’s one thing you need to “fix.”

But your wellbeing is much more like a puzzle, made up of many interconnected pieces.

Your emotional wellbeing, physical health, relationships, work, parenting, sleep, thoughts, hormones, environment, past experiences, personal values, and even your sense of purpose can all influence how you think, feel and function each day.

When one piece is out of balance, it often affects the others.

That’s why I take a holistic approach. Together, we’ll gently explore the different pieces of your wellbeing so we can better understand what’s contributing to how you’re feeling, and identify the small, meaningful changes that can help you feel calmer, happier and more like yourself again.

Every day, you make hundreds of small choices. While many are made on autopilot, over time those choices shape your energy, mood, resilience and overall wellbeing.

The encouraging news is that even small, sustainable changes can have a powerful ripple effect, helping you create a life that feels calmer, healthier and more aligned with the mum and the woman you want to be.

 As we’re all different and individual challenges require a unique approach, I use various evidence-based modalities in my counselling sessions. My support and practice include Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Person-Centred Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Solution-Focussed Therapy, and Mindfulness-based stress-reduction techniques. These techniques can be extremely helpful in enabling you to gain greater personal insight, build resilience and strength, reduce symptoms of stress and anxiety, balance emotions, and gain clarity and confidence to move forward in your life.
I will help you get started on that road to positive change, and stay by your side, for as little or as long as you like.
With many years of experience working with adults and young people in various environments, including occupational rehabilitation, human resource management, a drug and alcohol rehabilitation program, and mentoring (young mums program), I’m committed to helping you resolve whatever may be holding you back from finding your way forward. You’ll be supported in a safe space, as I work with you, in confidence, without judgement.
Having travelled to many countries around the world, I’ve also lived and worked in China, South Korea, and Canada – and have a strong appreciation of how different cultures and values shape the ways in which we live.
I’m married with 2 children, and very much appreciate the challenges and nature of all things pregnancy, birth, the postnatal period, parenting, perimenopause, the day-to-day juggle, and the impact this can have on your life in every way!

Motherhood is full of many emotions and experiences… but living with overwhelm, constant stress, anxiety, disconnection, or burnout isn’t “just part of being a mum”.

You crave a greater sense of calm, inner peace, and to be more present and joyful with the people you care about most.

If stress, overwhelm, or anxiety is holding you back from enjoying motherhood and life as you juggle work, family or other commitments, I’m here to support you with evidence-based tools and strategies, in confidence.

Mums reach out to me because they’re tired of waking up or ending the day with stress, overwhelm, or worrying – or because they feel impacted by motherhood burnout – and they’re not showing up as the mum they wish to be.

I’m dedicated to supporting mums in Australia, NZ, and beyond who are ready to embrace a calmer, more present, confident, and happier part of themselves. With minimal wait times for all new clients guaranteed (2-10 working days during school terms), I’m committed to helping you achieve your wellbeing goals in a safe and private space, as soon as possible.

I’ve helped many women live healthier and happier lives through private counselling and therapy, coaching, online courses, and live talks and workshops around Australia.

Are you ready to reach out?

 Are you ready to take the next step and make a commitment to your health and wellbeing, to start feeling better?
Reach out for your FREE 20-minute consult and find out how Wendy can help you.